Saturday, May 31, 2008
Merrily we camp along!
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Thursday, May 29, 2008
I'm going camping in the morning!
My sleep schedule is officially completely screwed up. Between all the stress and craziness of this last week and working nights, my body has gone crazy! Do I sleep at night? Do I sleep during the day? Do I even sleep at all? Even though I'm currently exhausted and only slept until 2 pm today after working last night, I'm wide awake!! I need to sleep....I have to be up early to pack up my car!!!
Anyone want to sing me to sleep?!
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Monday, May 26, 2008
Happy Memorial Day!
The rain was falling fast and furious today. Perhaps in memoriam of those loved ones we remember and honor on this day?
Kate and I visited the graves of our sister, Gwendolyn and our Grandpa M. Patrice and Marissa visited the graves of our Grandpa S., Uncle Matt and Great-Uncle Delbert. We all took bouquets made from the gorgeous yard of our Grandma. By the time we were finished, we were all soaked.
Kate decided to stick around this evening and return to Rexburg tomorrow. Partially due to the rain and partially due to the fact that Dad, Sam, and Tom were returning this evening. A family dinner/game night was decided upon and the guys and Marissa came over.
I tried out a new recipe and whipped up Honey Ginger pork chops, sticky rice and steamed green beans. It was a hit and delicious.
Marissa decided that she had the perfect game for all of us and taught us to play 'Captions'. It is a hilarious game that is sort of a cross between Pictionary and Telephone (aka Telegraph). Somehow the phrase 'hobbits have hairy feet' got changed to 'I bagged a baby bigfoot in an egg' and so on. Great fun for all!! Even Dad got into it.
It was so nice to have tonight and the peaceful relief and comeraderie it brought. We need more days like this.
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Grandma
A week ago last night, my grandmother fell at home. Apparently she had been quite confused for several days. A few years ago, my aunt had signed my grandmother up for an emergency response system. Grandma was wearing her emergency button around her neck, but did not push it as she didn't want to go to the hospital. Some time Monday, an aide that helps Grandma with household chores found her lying on her kitchen floor. With the assistance of Grandma's part time nurse, they helped her to bed.
After a day of running lab work, and Grandma's increasing confusion and refusal to eat or drink, she was admitted to the hospital. When I awoke Tuesday afternoon/evening and prepared to go to work, I had two panicked phone messages...from my aunt in New York and my Dad in Missouri. At the time, I was the only family in the valley and I was needed. Thank heavens for kind, understanding charge nurses.
I spent Tuesday night at the bedside of my Grandma. My brother, Tom, zipped up from Provo and spent several hours at Grandma's bedside with me, giving her a blessing of peace and healing before he left. Patrice, my aunt, and Marissa, my cousin, flew immediately from New York and arrived about 1 a.m. Patrice sat at the bedside with me the remainder of the night.
After several hours sleep, I returned to the hospital in the early evening and sent Patrice home to sleep. Once again, I stayed at Grandma's bedside, calming and soothing and trying to make sense of her muddled conversation. When I knew Grandma was calm and relaxed and sleeping I left to get more sleep (around 2 a.m.).
Wednesday night also heralded the arrival of my dad and youngest brother, Sam. A farming conference in California was the original purpose of their trip, but they also were here to see Grandma. When I arrived at her bedside on Thursday with my Dad, Tom and Sam in tow, Grandma was in fine form. She was completely paranoid and convinced that we, as a family, were conspiring against her. Having worked with elderly people with dementia for many years, I knew not to take her ramblings seriously and not to argue with her. My poor Dad, though, I think felt quite hurt by the accusations. I tried to explain to him the state Grandma was in and I hope he at least kind of understood.
Friday, I tried to catch up on housework, grocery shopping, laundry, etc. My Dad and brothers left for California and my sister, Kate, came down from Idaho for the weekend.
Saturday, Kate and I visited Grandma. Her mental status had much improved, but her poor little old tired body isn't in the best of shape. She has several bad pressure sores from laying on the kitchen floor for so long, old unhealed fractures in her spine, her lungs are a little wet, and she is showing every single one of her nearly 89 years.
Yesterday, Sunday, after church Kate and I stopped by Grandma's hospital room briefly with a gift of ice cream. She had moved from the ICU to a regular hospital room, but it looks like a long haul from here. Her body is healing slowly, but to all appearances, the independence she has heretoforth know cannot go on. She can no longer live alone. Her days of free flight are gone and she is a caged bird. To what extent, it remains to be seen. Nonetheless, it is a truly sad day.
We love you Grandma and hope you get better soon! Never give up your fighting spirit! You are in our prayers and thoughts!
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Saturday, May 3, 2008
The fun has wound down
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Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Home...sweet home?!
After a day at Sea World, another at the San Diego Wild Animal Park and Old Town San Diego, we came home today. BRRRRR!
Yesterday, San Diego started to cool down a bit and by the evening, it was in the lower 60's. This trend continued and followed us northeast. By the time we reached the middle of Utah, we were hitting temperatures in the 30's and SNOW!!!! One nice week of 90+ weather and back we returned to winter?
I was quite prolific in my picture taking this week and have discovered my laptop's picture holding capacity. There are approximately 300 pictures sitting on my camera, just waiting for me to make space for them. I plan to make CD's of all the pics both for myself and for Stacey and Tricia. Just one more project for tomorrow....along with unpacking, laundry, getting souvenirs to my girls, and catching up on the latest with Tammy and Shelly.
Hm, a couple other tidbits on our trip. I got voted the 'annoying little sister' (first time for everything! ....and I was informed that 'annoying' isn't always bad and is quite relative!), Tricia was our 'Mommy' and Stacey was the 'annoying big sister'.
Did I mention that somewhere along the way on our trip, I caught a doozy of a cold? What a downer for a vacation!!! Oh well, I just kept plodding on and self medicating and managed to still have fun.
I discovered on Monday that I had a ton of red bumps all over my arms where they had been exposed to the sun/ sunburnt. It was quite itchy and I thought maybe I had heat rash. By Tuesday, I discovered that I was wrong....they were BLISTERS! I haven't burnt so badly in years! And only once before in my life. I'm just glad it was just on my arms, not on my back, legs, face, etc.
I got two separate exciting calls while on my trip. My sister Amethyst is getting married on August 5 in Missouri and my brother Tom is getting married July 29 in Oklahoma! I'm so excited for them and for getting to see my whole family this summer!!! Now, only to get ppl. to take shifts for me...
Did I mention that I'm tired and I'm wasting time so that I won't feel so guilty about not unpacking right now? Ok, maybe I'll unpack some of it. *Sigh*
Pictures are pending...based on when I can upload them.
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Sunday, April 27, 2008
Still trippin'
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